Reality check

Reality this, reality that.  Who reality cares?

We have to care, if we are trying to understand ourselves.

Over the last few weeks we talked about the reality that never changes, matter and energy.  There’s the reality that is shared by all life, things that are born, and then die.  There’s the reality of people, brought to you by the same people who like to make love, and war.  And there’s the reality of yourself, the stuff that only you can know, like your inner thoughts.

Is there a handy or easy way to keep these straight so that I don’t have to go muddling about trying to remember what belongs where?  Let’s try this exercise.

Pretend we are studying your dreams.  And someone asks you, are your dreams real?  Of course they are, to you.  Are your dreams real to all people?  Here’s the test; make yourself disappear.  It’s only a thought experiment, so you can disappear to a luxury island where there’s beautiful servants waiting upon your every whim.  What happens to YOUR dreams though, relative to everyone else?  Of course you don’t care, because you’re getting your feet rubbed on that pristine beach.  But for the rest of us, your dreams are gone, long gone.  They aren’t real to us, because they disappeared when you disappeared.

What about dreams in general, are they real?  Since we’re talking about general dreams, what we’re saying is this; do dreams only exist in people?  Let’s find out and send all people to that same luxury island (it’s a big island) so that all other life is now devoid of people.  Now some of the animals may have dream-like stages, but since they can’t talk we won’t ever know if they are dreaming.  So dreams are only “real” in the sense that people are real.  Dreams in general represent a reality that is only common to people.

What about life and death?  Is it real?  It’s real as long as we are looking at things that live.  Take away all life, and you have something that looks like the moon.  There is no life on the moon, and there is no death.  Life and death, then, are only as real as the living things they represent.

And this is how to determine the degree of “realness” of anything we study.  Take yourself away, if it still exists, it’s more real than you.  Take people away, and if it still exists, it’s even “realer.”  Take all life away, and if it still exists, it’s as real as it gets.

Thanks for coming along.  Now let’s get real.  Let’s only study things that are real.

 

 

Is that really you?

Are you real?  Have you thought about it?

In these last few weeks, we talked about how matter and energy are real.  Well, there’s a good chance you are made of matter and energy.  I think I’m mostly dark matter but that’s mostly in my stomach.

You are also alive, and as a member of all things living you are real in the sense that life is real.  You are alive, right?

Since you’re reading this, it’s also likely that you are a person.  Last week we noticed how there are lots of things that people do that are unique to people, and not life in general.  So, as a people, you are also real.  Isn’t it great to be a human?

There’s one more reality.  It’s all you.  Totally.  Don’t believe me?  Then try this on for size.  Are you alone?  Check.  The NSA doesn’t count, but it doesn’t hurt to cover up your camera!  OK, now cough.  Once is enough.  You were the only person to hear you cough.  Was that cough real?

As a people, we know that people cough.  But that’s in general.  Your specific one-time-only cough came, and went.  We don’t have the technology to bring it back, even if you wanted.  My point is that your cough is real, only to you.

Ever have a dream?  Of course you have.  Sleep researchers are pretty sure everyone dreams regularly.  Did you ever remember a dream?  Probably, the odds are good on this one because it depends on when you wake from a sleep cycle.  Did anyone else ever have the exact same dream?  Of course not.  Yet, is your dream real?  Yes, but only to you.

And this is the last sort of reality.  It’s the reality of you.  You form your own little universe where what you experience, what you feel, what you think, is all real.  It’s real only to you.  The extent that you can get others to believe in YOUR reality is a testament to your powers of persuasion, like when you share your dreams.  But it’s still only your reality.

There you have it.  Many realities.  Now that we know this, we can be aware of which reality we are working in as we try to understand behavior.  There’s a handy way to keep them straight, but that’s for next week.

See you then.  Sweet dreams!