Is that really you?

Are you real?  Have you thought about it?

In these last few weeks, we talked about how matter and energy are real.  Well, there’s a good chance you are made of matter and energy.  I think I’m mostly dark matter but that’s mostly in my stomach.

You are also alive, and as a member of all things living you are real in the sense that life is real.  You are alive, right?

Since you’re reading this, it’s also likely that you are a person.  Last week we noticed how there are lots of things that people do that are unique to people, and not life in general.  So, as a people, you are also real.  Isn’t it great to be a human?

There’s one more reality.  It’s all you.  Totally.  Don’t believe me?  Then try this on for size.  Are you alone?  Check.  The NSA doesn’t count, but it doesn’t hurt to cover up your camera!  OK, now cough.  Once is enough.  You were the only person to hear you cough.  Was that cough real?

As a people, we know that people cough.  But that’s in general.  Your specific one-time-only cough came, and went.  We don’t have the technology to bring it back, even if you wanted.  My point is that your cough is real, only to you.

Ever have a dream?  Of course you have.  Sleep researchers are pretty sure everyone dreams regularly.  Did you ever remember a dream?  Probably, the odds are good on this one because it depends on when you wake from a sleep cycle.  Did anyone else ever have the exact same dream?  Of course not.  Yet, is your dream real?  Yes, but only to you.

And this is the last sort of reality.  It’s the reality of you.  You form your own little universe where what you experience, what you feel, what you think, is all real.  It’s real only to you.  The extent that you can get others to believe in YOUR reality is a testament to your powers of persuasion, like when you share your dreams.  But it’s still only your reality.

There you have it.  Many realities.  Now that we know this, we can be aware of which reality we are working in as we try to understand behavior.  There’s a handy way to keep them straight, but that’s for next week.

See you then.  Sweet dreams!

 

 

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